在孩子生病的时候，妈妈往往是最焦虑的人。这种焦虑可能源自于怀胎十月、历经分娩之痛，是一种天然的母性本能。而爸爸们则常常无法完全理解妈妈的担忧，他们可能觉得妈妈太过紧张，认为孩子没事，不必如此忧心。然而，母子之间的情感纽带让妈妈能够深刻感受到孩子生病时的痛苦，因此妈妈们总是格外焦虑、难过。
最近，我的两个宝贝儿子都因为细菌感染而生病了。在这段时间里，我觉得自己异常镇定，相信他们会渡过难关。但与此同时，我妻子却异常紧张，因为她深知孩子们的痛苦，知道他们不会轻易康复。事实证明，母亲的直觉总是无比准确的。我的两个孩子因为细菌感染而不断呕吐、发高烧。这时，我也能感受到他们的痛苦，心里感到很内疚、心痛。但作为家庭的支柱，我必须保持镇定、坚强。我知道如果我也陷入恐慌，那么家庭的局面会变得更加混乱，更加难以应对。因此，我告诉自己，必须坚定地面对困难，给妻子和孩子们更多的支持与勇气。
孩子们，我想告诉你们，你们是我们的骄傲。你们虽然身患疾病，但依然表现出非常的坚强和勇敢。你们的独立和自立让我们感到无比欣慰。在这段艰难的时期里，你们尽力不让我们担心，这让我们更加为你们感到自豪。
孩子的妈妈，我想对你说，你辛苦了。这些日子你为了照顾孩子们，连夜未眠。我真心为你的付出感到心疼，但同时我也深感无助，无法分担你的负担。你是我生命中最伟大的女性，我为能有你作伴而感到幸福。
尽管我现在心情沉重，但我还有许多事情要去处理。我必须克服内心的焦虑，继续履行我的责任。我希望孩子们能够尽快康复，也希望你能够照顾好自己的身体。我会一直在你们身边，成为你们最坚强的后盾。
When a child falls ill, the most anxious person is often the mother, perhaps because of the nine-month pregnancy and the hardships endured to bring the child into the world. Therefore, when a child falls ill, fathers often cannot fully understand the mother's feelings. They may think the mother is too nervous and believe the child is fine, so there's no need to worry so much. However, the tacit understanding between mother and child allows the mother to feel the child's pain when they are sick, so mothers are always particularly anxious and upset.
Recently, both of my precious sons fell ill due to bacterial infections. I felt calm and believed they would be fine, but my wife was extremely anxious because she knew the children's suffering and realized they wouldn't recover easily. The fact proved that the mother's intuition was correct. Both of my children were continuously vomiting and running high fevers due to bacterial infections. At that moment, I also felt their pain and felt guilty and heartbroken. But I couldn't show that I was also upset because someone had to remain calm and be a strong support. If everyone panicked, the situation would get worse. So as a father, I told myself I must stay calm and not show anxiety, I must be firm.
To my children, I want to tell you that you are the best sons. You are very independent and strong. Even when you are sick and suffering, you try not to worry us too much. I'm really proud of you.
To my wife, I want to say, you have worked hard, thank you. You haven't rested properly these days, and I feel sorry for you. But I seem to be unable to help, and I feel guilty. The mother of our children, you are the best and most beautiful person I have ever seen. I am lucky to have married you.
Although I don't feel like working now, there is still a lot of work to do, so I must start working immediately. I hope the children recover soon, and I hope my wife will take care of your health too. I will always be your strongest support.
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